Forking nice guy- this Tobias.  I feel bad for voicing my panic earlier on.
My girl just forwarded his response-
Hi Susan,
thanks for your honesty and for your email ! There's no need
to send it back. Just keep it. Maybe your boyfriend wants one
for playing and one to keep on the shelf - you know, silly 
gamers 

Thanks,
Tobias
So yeah- if I'm going to profit off of it in any way- he should too for being a good sport.  However guyjin should collectively pay out at least less than the amount of one off of Tobias- otherwise what'd be the point?  So $25 to Tobias sounds nice- and as for me- is there a cheap loose hucard you could offer?  :-"